I’m sorry

3 11 2009

How old should a child be when they learn, “I’m sorry”?  I’ve told Levi sorry when I’ve made mistakes or blamed him for something he didn’t do or didn’t mean to do.  I’ve tried to tell him whenever it was appropriate, whenever I was sorry.  Levi is now 2 years and almost 9 months old… 33 months, almost 3 years.  Shouldn’t now be a good time for him to learn to say, “I’m sorry.”

Well, it better be.  He has a bowling ball for a head, or rather it’s that hard.  He tripped and fell today, and while I was consoling him on my lap, he whacked his head back and smacked my nose.  This was the hardest he’s ever smacked it before.  Instantly I cried, it hurt that bad.

I made him stay in his room until he said he’s sorry. He came out every so often, which we allow, but wouldn’t apologize, so I sent him back.  By the third time, we had a short (as in low to the ground) eye-to-eye chat and he mostly said sorry.  By mostly, I mean he said it and had some eye contact.

Is this the right time?  It seemed effective 2 days ago.  He’s got to learn, sooner rather than later, how his actions affect others.  So, now seems like a good time to me.





Choices & Competition in Health Care

3 10 2009

My favorite time to write is in the morning after I’ve read the paper.  Usually, I’ve read something that spurs me to write… getting my creative juices flowing, so to speak.  I write, in these moments, to react against or to something I’ve just read in my morning Oregonian.  Today, I”m writing about the health care debate, or lack thereof.

I’ve been wanting to write about health care for a while.  But, I haven’t really looked at the issue itself, only a few cursory glances towards some things  that have come my way.  In the end, I think health care for all is better than nothing.  I hope that the system will correct itself after the initial several SNAFUs.  I hope that citizens will write to their elected officials and tell them what they need.

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Safety in Libraries

24 09 2009

Our obsession with safety has been a theme lately.  My actions towards my son and my husband’s actions towards our son, for example.  We do certain things to keep him safe.  We are so concerned, as parents, as a society, in protecting childhood innocence, I am beginning to wonder if we squander away learning experiences by being the overprotective parents we would have hated.

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Levi the Talking Monster

19 05 2009





Sick Baby

18 05 2009
Levi, before being sick, is standing in the backyard maybe on Mother's Day.

Levi, before being sick, is standing in the backyard maybe on Mother's Day.

I slept in until Pete was done showering.  So, at ten after 5 this morning, I got up, got his lunch together and began tidying the kitchen.  I received an idea-inspiring email from a friend, and worked on some things for that conversation.  I put the laundry in the dryer, got my lunch together.  I was feeling quite productive.  I spent too long in the shower, but was still doing good on time.  I began getting Levi’s breakfast together, and finally, at 7:30am I went to get the Bug up.

Levi had squacked an hour earlier, but he put himself back to sleep.  He didn’t really want to get out of bed, but didn’t raise too much of a fuss when I scooped him and Rabbbit out of bed.  His head was HOT!  It felt like it was on fire, so I laid him on the changing table and touched his tummy and legs, which were warmer but not hot like his head.  The window was closed, he had no covers on, and the heat was turned off.  So, I looked at the docile babe and ran into the bathroom to get the thermometer.  We haven’t had much luck with little person thermometers, but we did have a $7 standard, digital thermometer from Walgreen’s.  So, I asked Levi to play a little game – keep the thermometer in his mouth until it beeped.  Immediately, it seemed, the readout was 101.5!  My baby has a temperature, a fever!  

We are all getting over colds, but Levi has never run a fever.  Yes, he’s had weight issues, ER visits, bumps, scrapes, and colds.  But, my little baby has never had a fever.  Kids get sick, but as a first time mom, this was his first fever!  

I didn’t even change his diaper, I just scooped him and Rabbit up and we went into the kitchen.  He was quite uncomfortable and would moan frequently.  I grabbed the Children’s Ibuprofen and poured 1 dose.  He can now drink out of cups, and they flavor this medicine so well, I diddn’t even need to tell him to drink the whole thing… he just did.  

I called the Pediatrician and left a message with the answering service, left a message with the daycare, left a message with my work, and called my husband.  All before 8am.  Nothing opens until 8am or 8:30am!  The on-call doctor called right back and assured me there was nothing to worry about but to bring him in if I felt it necessary.  I read at the daycare they only want kids to be late if there’s a doctor appointment, and I really wanted to rule out an ear infection, so I waited until 8:30am.  Levi and I watched T.V. until 8:10am, and then he began to feel better.   So, we ate breakfast – he certainly had most of an appetite.  I was able to secure a 9:30am appointment at 8:45am, and by that time, Levi and I were both ready and dressed.  So, now I just had to get the car ready.  I had to pack for the doctor’s office and a potential daycare drop.  (Did I mention my dear husband forgot his license today and that would have been another trip?)  

We arrived at the doctor 5 minutes early, and we were called in right away.  All told, it was a 20 minute visit – record time!  Levi loved the parking garage where he could hear his echo as he yelled, “What!” in the car and in the garage.  He loved pressing the elevator buttons, and he loved the toys in the waiting room.  But, fear and trepidation took over when we went through the doors into the exam rooms.  We used a different doctor, who was wonderful.  She checked for ear infections, swollen glands, and confirmed his runny nose.  The nurse had  already taken his temperal temperature, which read 98.6.  

The verdict, though, was that kids can’t attend daycare when they have a temperatover over 100.3 in a 24-hour period.  So, at home we stay.  Now, Mr. Levi is napping, but we’ve had a busy day.  We played baseball in the yard, watched some OPB, tried to spray off the aphids with soapy water and our new spray bottles, and then lunch.  He didn’t have much of an apppetite for lunch, and he barely squaked going down for his nap.

So, that’s the day-to-day diary of Mr. Levi and his first fever.  Everyone was very helpful and understanding, especially about missing work and allowing us to have an ‘extra’ day for daycare.  

But, the thing that gets me is that I don’t like missing work, and now I have to if the kiddo is sick.  Everyone was understanding, but what happens when you get a boss who isn’t?  Family comes first, because there is a limited point to having the job if there is no family to take care of… I suppose we’ll see what happens when I go back to work tomorrow.





The Rabbit

16 05 2009

We’ve noticed lately that a certain stuffed bunny could benefit from a bath.  We were unsure of the wisest course of action but settled on the washing machine followed by a line dry.  This weekend presented our opportunity.  Needless to say – a certain two-year old was quite distressed when a certain mommy said, “Rabbit has to take a bath.”  And then, rabbit was submerged in the washing machine.  It took about a half hour for Mr. Levi to get over his sadness so that he could function.  When the aforementioned bunny was then strung on the line…

Rabbit here, drying in the sun.

Rabbit here, drying in the sun.

… the certain two-year old eventually found him because it was imperative that the laundry be finished.  So, when momma was hanging the other linens on the line, Mr. Levi had to inspect.  Rabbit was found.

Levi is frantically reaching for Rabbit.  He misses his friend.  It's kind of like Calvin without Hobbes.

Levi is frantically reaching for Rabbit. He misses his friend. It's kind of like Calvin without Hobbes.





April Levi

30 04 2009

Some photos of Levi in April.

Levi napping with Dad.

Levi stealing Daddy's napping spot.

Levi was really tired this day and fell asleep in his chair at lunch.

Levi was really tired this day and fell asleep in his chair at lunch.

Levi taking the screws out of the fan.

Levi taking the screws out of the fan.

Levi in his dinner chair.

Levi in his dinner chair.

Levi and the water bottle.

Levi and the water bottle.

Levi and my Nalgene.

Levi and my Nalgene.





Levi in March

8 04 2009




Levi the Fan Fixer

8 04 2009

Levi removed all the screws from the fan so that he and his daddy could clean off the blades.